It's not what you think.

No, really. It's not.

My husband commented to me after reading my last post that he thought it would make my readers think we're having marital problems. We're not.

We are still in the midst of this conflict (the two of us united on one side of it) that was dropped in our laps before Christmas. It's starting to feel like the other party (or parties, I'm not even completely sure) is (are?) blowing us off. Resolution must not be high on the priority list.

I'm getting hacked off that this conflict was brought to us before Christmas (December 14th, to be specific), and that this hasn't yet been resolved. If it could have waited, then why wasn't it brought to us after the holidays? Instead, it was unleashed on us, and we have been stewing over it for weeks now.

That's just not cool. I don't care who you are or what the problem is. If you bring up a conflict, and it requires a scheduled meeting to resolve it, then MAKE TIME FOR THE MEETING. I'm just sayin. It's really unkind to blow it off after bringing it up.